Submitted by: Manjunath Gowda

Its easy to fall in love. But its difficult to maintain the same relationshp and the even more difficult thing to face a break up.

It feels wonderful to be in love

When you away from them for anytime you feel lonely, and empty, and miss them.

Everything about them, seems perfect to you (their appearance, what they say, their voice etc.)

You can see their personality in their eyes

You feel more connected to them more than you are to anyone, and you feel you understand fully, inside-out

You could spend eternity, talking to them and never get bored

Being around/talking to them comforts you, and makes your worries go away

You’d trust them with your life and more

You are open to them, and never hide anything (If its real love you should never have to)

BUT but…when a misunderstanding comes between the two, the so called heaven becomes an absolute hell.

They’ll start doubting on each other start fighting for unnecessary things etc etc. So life becomes hell.

This misunderstanding happens when one starts caring less about another, or one of them losing interest in him/her. Whatever it may be these small fights and misunderstandings will lead to an event called BREAK UP.

The one who was loving truly will face unbearable pain. Ask me. So as I’ve experienced this I’ve decided to list out some points about what to do and what not to in a LOVE relationship.

This is only for boys as I don’t know the way of thinking of girls.

The first and foremost thing you’ll have to learn here is mind control and should learn the habit of controlling emotions, like if u can’t control your anger there are lot of chances of losing your girl friend. Always think before you speak.

Never be over expressive. Don’t always eat her head by saying how much you love her it can never build extra feelings for u in her heart. It makes her to take u for granted.

Never show her that u r desperate. If u people fight, u always don’t be the person to break silence, Give her chance to come behind u.

Don’t ever take her seriously until u r very sure that her feelings for u is genuine.

Be humorous.Try to make her to laugh at your jokes but not to laugh at u.

Don’t ever ignore others like friends and family for her. Because you’ll need all these people some or the other day in future.

Don’t be too much possessive about her. Let her free to some extent, she shouldn’t feel ur relationship as jail and in the meantime don’t let her loose too much and blindly believe her. Chances of back stabbing u will be more.

Never force her for something. Like, forcing her to meet her or forcing her to speak to u always. Instead if she says no for something, reply her with a polite “Its ok”. That makes her to think about u always.

Be mysterious to her. Never let her to know u completely.That will make her to lose interest or u can say curiosity in u.

And one of the most irritating part about girls is,If u try to be too romantic with her. She will think that u r loving her just for time pass and If u try to be too innocent with her she’ll leave u thinking that u r not her kind of fellow. So always try to be in between.

Praise her,but don’t do it more than required. This will make her to think that she deserves better person.

Don’t ever keep mediator in between u and her or u can say don’t give chance to any third parties to dominate ur relationship. In most cases break up happens because of this reason. so, always make sure that there are only 2 characters in ur love story. Viz., U and HER.

Hope my article bring some changes in all my brothers with the broken heart. Wish u all the very best for ur future.

And my final advice is don’t ever get attached so much to anyone in the world, coz if u lose that person, chances of coming back are very less.

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